Also I'm seeing "screencap dunk" culture coming over already and seriously can we not


@AzureFemme my hot take is that people give twitter the company too much credit for ruining twitter and not enough credit to the people on it, many of whom will be coming here if they’re not already.

@AzureFemme like yeah twitter the company sucks, but they’re also not the ones tweeting all the things that make us feel shitty constantly (they’re just profiting from it)

@AzureFemme (sorry, this is my pessimism about social media coming out, i was very skeptical of much of the mastodon optimism and I’m feeling very Validated about it rn, even though i do think it’s better and the open architecture is definitely an improvement)

@poss_bot I don't know what to say in response to this. I understand that and also want someplace to be where this isn't happening.

@AzureFemme i ALSO think this is a thing that will just have to shake out on mastodon periodically (and that it will isn’t an indictment of the platform to be certain!). It just grew a lot, I’m not surprised really. It does suck though, and even i was hoping we’d somehow magically avoid it this time.

@AzureFemme (also i apologize if any of this comes off as crass, what you’re talking about seriously sucks, people shouldn’t put up with it, and i think better things are possible. They just aren’t going to happen bc we moved to a new site, there’s more to do than that!)

@poss_bot yeah I hear that. I find vocal pessimism rarely helpful for myself so that can be offputting but I also hear your realistic concerns

@AzureFemme really sorry. That was a bit of emotions spilling out where they probably shouldn’t have been; i don’t at all wanna diminish your feelings/needs by going “i told you/everyone so!”. I’m feeling some complex and challenging feelings rn for sure.

@poss_bot that's fair. There's a lot going on and investment in platforms and people absolutely have expectations for Masto that aren't realistic. Its hard


I mean, I suppose the plus side is you could always start your own server. But yeah, the most unfixable bugs are in the human OS


@smona @AzureFemme My partner and i just finished setting up our own instance about 30 min ago fwiw

@AzureFemme @poss_bot sorry for budging in, but I want to add that we have more tools to handle those things here.

Like that we can silence or suspend whole instances, that have users with mostly that behavior.

There are at least better moderation tools here, to make sure that toxic culture doesn't spread too far.

@maxinered @AzureFemme @poss_bot further butts

Here I also made a stand against that by telling people to cut it out and / or CW where appropriate or I'm done with them

I can't do it anymore and I'm making it clear that isn't welcome on my TL. I'll just do without people who so it and boost it.

Harsh but I have to reclaim some of what I lost to Twitter

@AzureFemme @poss_bot @Gargron I wonder if this could be something that instances add to their rules. Something like “quote tooting or screencap dunking is expressly not allowed/3-strikes bannable offense” or something.

@poss_bot @AzureFemme thank you for helping me find the words to describe how I've been feeling about mastodon these past few days

@poss_bot I mean let's be real Twitter the company is also complicit in it but yeah also there are lots of toxic people

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